Is death destined and fated?
I thought I wouldn’t touch on this topic until when I’m old and preparing to die. Somehow, death seems more prominent recently. It’s not that any of my close ones passed away recently but it’s because the close ones of my friends around had departed at a young age or via sudden death. It really got me to think that life is fragile. We wouldn’t know when we’ll leave this world.
To be honest, I’m not afraid of death. What I’m afraid of is the impact it may bring to the people around because I think it’s difficult to accept loss. I feel that it’s really important that we live everyday as though it’s our last day so that if anything was to happen, at least we know that we leave with no regrets. That is to say, we always need to be happy, be grateful, be appreciative and to treasure who we love, and never to wait till it’s too late to do all these.
有时候，我是不是太理智了一点，不自觉地忽略他人的感受？
The most stressful part of my first day of work was during lunchtime cos I had to keep my mouth shut and keep up with the eating pace of the rest! :(
Yup, my holiday has come to an end before I have enjoyed enough. :( Oh well, I’m gonna start my field placement. I feel unprepared and scared. There seems to be more fear than excitement as of now. But, I know everything will be fine and fun! So, I shall look forward to it anyways! :)
对我而言，我天真地认为爱很简单。爱，是天天想看到对方，天天享受对方陪伴的时候。爱，是在一起的时候都开开心心。爱，是可以做自己。爱，是可以和对方分享你心中的每一件事，快乐与否。爱，是包容对方的缺点，珍惜对方的优点。爱，是可以开玩笑地欺负对方，又不用怕对方会生气。爱，是不用担心对方会以有色的眼光看待你。爱，是体贴，温柔，安心的。爱，是信任，不怀疑。爱，是无条件的，不要求回报。不过，看了这部戏后，我才发现爱并不是那么简单。
再见单人床：http://video.xin.msn.com/watch/video/episode-18/1gqj7ju14
From 31:13 - “爱，是恒久的忍耐。爱，是不嫉妒，不自夸，不张狂。爱，是不做害羞的事。爱，是不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒。爱，是凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事忍耐，凡事盼望。爱，是永不止息的。爱，光靠嘴巴去说，是多么的容易。可是要做的话，那就难了。”
爱，真的是个非常复杂又深奥的东西啊！我们还是有很多学习和成长的空间！
